Negativity
Negative people are the dangerous virus that kills your inner peace. We should be able to recognize the people with negativity thoughts and behaviors. Some of the traits of negative people are:
1.Gossips:People who talk about others, those who criticize and agonize behind their back and most likely people who talk behind other people around you, they will probably talk about you when you're gone. Engaging with these people makes you end up gossiping or you have the bad feelings about that person.
2.Arrogant: These people will always be revealing an exaggerated sense of one's own importance or abilities. They will be characterized by conceited assertiveness and dogmatism.
3.Dominant: People with this nature will try to control over you no matter where they stand and will create disharmony in your surroundings. You should never indulge them in your circle.
4.Jealous Hater:People who admires you inside but are jealous. They will devalue you and call you inadequate for they can't reach your standard. They will be always looking for you small mistakes to limit your accomplishment.
5.Excuse maker: These character people come with different excuses to make you caught up in theirs excuses. Instead of solutions they will have excuses and they are energy suckers.
As saying goes you can't change how people treat you or what they say about you. We should never expect people to go in your flow or should we never be controlled by their behavior, and the reason is we are born at different time and places with different characters. We must embrace the people irrespective of their behaviors and the best way is to avoid them.
That's the best way to create harmony in the society and long lasting relationships as we avoid problems.
CURSORY OBSERVATION
Keep on writing
ReplyDelete